We have compiled some of the most common problems in modern relationships. What do you think about this?
lack of sincerity
Intimacy gradually decreases, the magic of real and direct encounter disappears. It reads more like something pre-written by a society that feels and is taught to experience a deep fear of loneliness, fundamentally wanting to avoid a deeper and more authentic knowledge of themselves. Most relationships have become something you have to do to avoid being alone.
first sex, then trying to fall in love or love
I don’t know almost anyone around me who has sex first and starts having sex after thinking about it for a while.
people are cutting off relationships as if it were a disposable trend. They prefer quantity over quality. online dating has turned people into commodities to be consumed.
trying to change your partner
Many people start a relationship thinking they can change their partner. You can’t change anyone, keep that in mind.
love should not require sacrifice. Why would you make sacrifices and constantly work to improve your relationship when you can start a new relationship every day?
It is a myth that opposites attract; We are often influenced by people who have the same understanding of the world as we do.
If you’re looking for a serious relationship these days, they’ll look at you like you’re weird. Being frivolous and easy to have sex with has become more preferable these days. Because sex is an indispensable part of a relationship, it is no longer something that belongs to marriage. And what could be more normal than having random sex as long as you have a box of condoms? Because in today’s society there is no point in insisting on the meaning of things that have meaning because today’s society is focused on crushing meaning.
lack of commitment and respect for commitments in relationships, the belief that there is always someone else around the corner, and instead of trying to be good with one person, you replace them with another person, discovering that the new person also has flaws and virtues.
Most importantly, the most difficult thing today is the relationship with oneself. Modern society is very demanding, professional standards, work standards, physical appearance standards, etc. They cause people to feel inadequate, to lack one or more qualities—they create low self-esteem, anguish, depression, and many other things. Never before have there been so many mental health illnesses in the world.